The almost dating status..

I am speaking up for the all girls out there who have been kept hanging, the almost in a relatioship status, all the "almost" kind of thing in a relationship. 

And the recent stories that most of my closest friends have gone through. I am standing up for all of you. <Yes, I am that affected> 

We girls have all the tendency to hope or long for someone especially when in you're late 20's and still single. 

"To almost date someone is to go back on a promise no one had to keep, because it was a promise no one made. You live in limbo for a little while, nothing more, but it’s okay because you grow drunk on possibility and giddy with potential. The almost relationship is everything that could happen, everything that could be."

You met this guy, established a rapport, that conversation or the things you do together that makes you happy. You feel that you have the connection with this guy but you cannot tell your friends that you're in a relationship, you will just smile at them and tell them "maybe" or too shy to tell them that this guy didn't tell you anything yet about your status. Your friends will just smile back, anticipate, and also hoping that finally after waiting for many years, you will tell them again that "yes, im in a relationship" or maybe waiting for your facebook status might be changed from single to "in a relationship"

Yes the guy did like you, but not to the extent that the guy will pursue you for something long term, in short, they don't like the "commitment" or they are not just  that into you. It hurts, but that's the reality nowadays. 

"Heartbreak from almost dating someone is no less real just because you didn’t have a title, because you didn’t meet the parents, because you never said “I love you” out loud. Because you sensed it. Because you felt that it could be there, really and truly. Because we were, but we weren’t, but we could have been."

Girls, I understand that it will give you some insecurities about yourself, or worst it will give you some fear to entertain guys again. But hey, be thankful that you didn't fall for a wrong guy. It takes a matter of time for you to forget about it, but it will pass.... soon enough :) 

Find someone who will change your life, not just your relationship status.

So enjoy life, be happy and let love find you :) 

God will give us the right guy in His most perfect time, have faith! :)